Im looking for a Long Distance Spy Messenger?

Right Now my Boyfriend and I are kind of far, and the only thing we can do is Instant Messaging , we do it on the Windows Live with Web Cam and all, but He sometimes tells me he is busy, when I know he is Not, i Just want to check with who he speaks on the I M, but since we are far I Cant use a Normal Key logger or Cam Eater, is there another way? …Thank You. Is its free Better!