Your really clueless…aren’t u?

Yes, a bunny outfit is demeaning, Peter Rabbit. Let her give you the love she wants to give you. Don’t demand it. You will kill it off fast, stupid. I’d rather have my girlfriend give me her naked body because she feels honored and loved.

Back off. She wants to please you. Let her.

Do you do stuff she wants you to do that might be demeaning? Like you said no one else is around, no harm no foul. Unless of course you absolutely force her to do it. But I figure if you guys are really in love then why not do things that your significant other likes you to do in private. Relationships are about compromise and sharing right?

You think I don’t know what you’re doing?
You silly little troublemaker.
Of course it’s demenaing, etc.
But I’ll tell you one serious thing-
as if this were for real-
She’s not the woman she thinks she is if she stays with a man who won’t respect her.

I could call you a male chauvinistic pig but I’m laughing too hard thinking about you having to talk your g/f into dressing up for you.
Its only demeaning if you have your mates around to ogle at her or take pictures of her & post them on the internet. LOL
Ok seriously. Your g/f has a personality of her own, she has morals and standards and its obvious that its only because she loves you that’s she’s even going ahead with this in the first place. You’re demeaning her just by asking her to do something she doesn’t want to do. That she does it is a sign of weakness, because she’s going against her better judgement. You! are her weakness, yet you still take advantage of her. Like I said… Pig. But that’s her choice.
And I’m still imagining a chick serving you drinks, willingly, without poring them over your flat head. lol
The fact that you paid for multiple costumes was your own decision, if you feel cheated because she doesn’t appreciated the gesture you’re only thinking about yourself & your needs. If you really cared you would have talked to her about the dress up & outfits before you even bought the damn things.
You’re a pig but I like the image. 10 points for having the peanuts to ask this question.

I’m curious as to how you “make” her wear it. That’s the problem you have here. First that you think you have the right to “make” her do anything. You’re a control freak, your last sentence and the fact that you went and bought them regardless of her feelings proves that. And you are just hoping you can get a bunch of guys on here to agree and then you can say I was reasonable, I asked and they agreed. Then you have the nerve to even try to strong arm them in your last sentence. Until you learn that a relationship is 50/50 you will not have a problem free one.

You can “make” her do something?! Wow….! That’s alot of power!

You’re saying that you want your girlfriend to do something to please you. She has made clear that she sees what you’re asking as “demeaning”, and YOU don’t RESPECT that???? (remember, “no” is a complete sentence. Adults don’t have to qualify their likes and dislikes with each other)

If you didn’t want to waste the money, why not return all of the costumes, and get your money back?

Then, the two of you sit down over a nice dinner, and talk. Afterwards, at home, let her decide what kind of thing she’d like to do to surprise you (that would please you) that she’d ENJOY….

p.s. Yes, we ARE trying to help you!!!! OK, ok, I’ve got the answer now…..she should LEAVE YOU….”problem solved”….

So…you already bought an assortment of playboy bunny outfits, and don’t want your money wasted?

Well here’s the solution…

YOU wear them!

Now do you get it?????

If she feels wierd doing it then it is wrong for her. Everybody is different. Talk to her about it from a respectful and understanding place. Maybe she will show you why it makes her uncomfortable, and you will show her why you think it is sexy instead of demeaning.

This can be worked out, but the bottom line is if she thinks it is demeaning for her, then it is.

I think it’s obvious. The only solution is that you should wear the outfits. Everyone agreed?

well if you are MAKING her ~ that is subservient.
If you do it occasionally to turn each other on and you both agree to it well then thats cool. If she feels demeaned then it is WRONG.
Tell her you like it and it turns you on. YOu would like it if she pleased you by wearing them. Ask her why it displeases her so much and why she can’t just have fun with it once in a while. It’s not like you are asking her to wear it ALL the time.
Guys aren’t gonna solve this issue for you ~ YOU NEED TO ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND WHAT IT IS ABOUT IT THAT IS SO DEGRADING AND DISTASTEFUL TO HER.
YOU & SHE NEED TO DISCUSS IT & DECIDE.

well i dont know how that feels…only because all of my ladies do what i ask of them. but to me it feels like you want to see her in them because you are proud of her body and more then likely want to see more of it other then every day clothing. if you had told her that you dont want to see her body and that you bought her sweats and a baggy shirt then she should feel upset. if anything she should feel proud that her man actually was brave enough to go in a store or where ever to pick out a outfit to show off her body. haaaa let her know that you both should have a lot more fun…you only live once and if something happens you dont want to look back and say “i wish i had just done it” whats the worst that can happen with wearing a playboy bunny outfit???

First of all it sounds as if you already have the answer to your own question, so why waste time hearing bogus answers. Or are you waiting to hear someone agree with you? So what do you do in return? Obviously not much for her if she’s still complaining, try making her feel good and maybe she’d like doing something for you.

you should never try to make her wear anything . shes a big girl and can dress herself. if you like that you could ask her and if shes uncomfortable with it then just drop it, it is demeaning, wht if she asks you to wear a hot pink shiny thong and wait on her hand and foot , would you want to. quit spending money on junk she doesn’t want to wear, why not spend money on stuff for her, not you that she actually likes, something nice that she can wear outside of the house. make her feel special instead of cheap. make her feel like you want to show her off in a classy way, shes not a whore. i personally find those playboy outfits to be so cheesy anyway. you should buy her nice lingerie, like victorias secret, something thats not so costume, then she might want to wear it, and don’t try to force her o wait on you while wearing it, have a quiet evening alone, and if she doesn’t want to wear that either then stop pressuring her, thats just not her thing, and a little hint it’s really not many girls thing, so it’s not just her. buy her some comfy pj’s. they can be just as cute…and every girl likes pj’s, i would live in mine if i could.

it is demeaning because you MAKE her.

it would not be demeaning if she did this for you because she wanted to.

I think the problem is in “making” her do anything. I’d suggest you ask her before you spend money on these costumes, cause I have a feeling you wasted some dough, dude. I know your just f**ing around, but still–in a general sense, it’s not a good idea to “make” people do things they don’t want to do.

Did it ever occur to you that she might feel fat in those outfits? I love playboy bunny stuff. But all women are different. Especially if she’s older, I doubt she finds it amusing. If she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing them ask her why? If she says it’s demeaning ask her why she feels that way too. Guys are visual human beings, if you ‘make’ her do it, ha you are looking for trouble. Ask her if there is any uncomfortable thing she’d like you to do. It might lighten the situation, and ‘even’ out the proposition. BUT, if she feels fat in them, make sure you re-assure her. AND if she doesn’t feel comfortable in them b/c of her appearance, then don’t push it! Keep giving her compliments and one day she might put them on for a surprise.

Having to MAKE her do anything is demeaning. It shows no respect or care for her wants and opinions and treats her as a child. If she doesn’t want to do it, respect her enough to not force it on her.Best wishes!

If you do things to please her and she can’t do something like this to please you, then how about this deal instead:

She does it, or you drop her and go out with someone who will.

Anyway, this section is brimming with feminazis the deck was stacked against you before you asked this question.

Henry my man … you can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do!
If the woman doesn’t want to engage in your fantasy then you are going to have to find someone who is willing to buy the clothes off of you. You should have asked the woman before you laid out the cash for a costume.
You’re request is reasonable. Then again it is a request, and her answer is reasonable. Stands to reason that you should let go of this and get on with the rest of your relationship.

thnk the real thing here is the word “make” — duh why make her do it — if she does not want to — she does not want to.

Well, obviously you d*ickweed, you wouldn’t think that it’s demeaning because you aren’t wearing it. It’s completely different from those girls in Playboy, because those girls have no morals and don’t care that they’re making females look like hos. I think it’s so ridiculous that you don’t think it’s demeaning. And a lot of people wouldn’t give a d*mn that you wasted your precious money. Doesn’t your girlfriend mean anything to you? You are a straight up jerk and I think it’s so sad that the world has people like you.

YOU DON’T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND

Only if you expect her to wear it. Oh, wait you did. So yes. She has to choose to wear it. So never make her. If you do want her to wear it, wait. And if you get tired of waiting, then forget it.