Comments on: Is making my girlfriend wear a playboy bunny outfit demeaning?

By: TK09

TK09 — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:49:03 +0000

Only if you expect her to wear it. Oh, wait you did. So yes. She has to choose to wear it. So never make her. If you do want her to wear it, wait. And if you get tired of waiting, then forget it.

By: wendy g

wendy g — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:30:43 +0000

YOU DON’T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND

By: c'est m o i

c'est m o i — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 03:22:18 +0000

Well, obviously you d*ickweed, you wouldn’t think that it’s demeaning because you aren’t wearing it. It’s completely different from those girls in Playboy, because those girls have no morals and don’t care that they’re making females look like hos. I think it’s so ridiculous that you don’t think it’s demeaning. And a lot of people wouldn’t give a d*mn that you wasted your precious money. Doesn’t your girlfriend mean anything to you? You are a straight up jerk and I think it’s so sad that the world has people like you.

By: John K

John K — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 17:00:55 +0000

thnk the real thing here is the word “make” — duh why make her do it — if she does not want to — she does not want to.

By: the old dog

the old dog — Sun, 13 Jul 2008 15:42:56 +0000

Henry my man … you can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do!
If the woman doesn’t want to engage in your fantasy then you are going to have to find someone who is willing to buy the clothes off of you. You should have asked the woman before you laid out the cash for a costume.
You’re request is reasonable. Then again it is a request, and her answer is reasonable. Stands to reason that you should let go of this and get on with the rest of your relationship.

By: Happy Bullet

Happy Bullet — Sun, 13 Jul 2008 14:06:03 +0000

If you do things to please her and she can’t do something like this to please you, then how about this deal instead:

She does it, or you drop her and go out with someone who will.

Anyway, this section is brimming with feminazis the deck was stacked against you before you asked this question.

By: carebear_cone

carebear_cone — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 06:08:02 +0000

Having to MAKE her do anything is demeaning. It shows no respect or care for her wants and opinions and treats her as a child. If she doesn’t want to do it, respect her enough to not force it on her.Best wishes!

By: glitter_lip_gloss

glitter_lip_gloss — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 10:49:30 +0000

Did it ever occur to you that she might feel fat in those outfits? I love playboy bunny stuff. But all women are different. Especially if she’s older, I doubt she finds it amusing. If she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing them ask her why? If she says it’s demeaning ask her why she feels that way too. Guys are visual human beings, if you ‘make’ her do it, ha you are looking for trouble. Ask her if there is any uncomfortable thing she’d like you to do. It might lighten the situation, and ‘even’ out the proposition. BUT, if she feels fat in them, make sure you re-assure her. AND if she doesn’t feel comfortable in them b/c of her appearance, then don’t push it! Keep giving her compliments and one day she might put them on for a surprise.

By: Teeleecee

Teeleecee — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 11:51:32 +0000

I think the problem is in “making” her do anything. I’d suggest you ask her before you spend money on these costumes, cause I have a feeling you wasted some dough, dude. I know your just f**ing around, but still–in a general sense, it’s not a good idea to “make” people do things they don’t want to do.

By: nickipettis

nickipettis — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:07:44 +0000

it is demeaning because you MAKE her.

it would not be demeaning if she did this for you because she wanted to.